Resilience tips
These are some of the resilience tips from the Class of 2018
- Speak to a friend and tell them you are nervous if a test, for example, is coming up.
- A pet is always there – no matter how much work you have to do, spend some time with a pet, at the end of the day. It is nice to look after someone/ something. A job other than school.
- Sport is a stress reliever and a distraction
- Focus on 1 objective at a time e.g. a particular test – small steps
- One day at a time – today I will do my homework and study X Y. This is easier to process. By the end of the day, mentally tick off what you have done. Take some relaxing time after this – I did the work, now I can relax.
- Escape by reading a book – empathy for the characters takes you away from your own issues.
- If you are panicking, take a break for 10 minutes and start again. Start with a fresh mind. It is the LC that counts not tomorrow’s homework.
- A meditation App
- If you are studying properly, parents trust that you are studying, they will encourage and not put extra pressure on.
- Look forward to something at the weekend/ have a reward for yourself eg buying a book and reading some of it , watching a movie, meeting a
- Walk away if things are getting too much – go to a friend, have a nap, visit a grandparent. You got enough done.
- Keep something on outside school eg a Music group. Something you enjoy. Go once a week.
- Have an outlet when you are annoyed – someone that you can vent at or bounce ideas off. Parents can be good to bounce ideas off.
- Don’t be tunnel visioned into just one course that you would like to do – have other options.
- Don’t get worked up over little things. Look at important things – you might have to leave homework to get a project done. The project could be most important at that time.
- Get started and do one thing. The others will follow. Don’t spend loads of time thinking, just get something done.
- Talk to a grandparent. It clears the mind and you are doing something good by visiting her/ him.
- Sit with a family member/ help a family member eg a little sibling who may also be under stress doing the JC. You have been there and know that it will be ok. Help them with that.
- It will be fine. Believe that.
- Be optimistic. Look forward to doing well, not fearing that you won’t. ( I think this can only come if you have put in the graft! )
- The LC is not the be all and end all. If you don’t get the course you want, there will be other options.